Have You Read Fifty Shades of Grey?
50 Shades of Grey is an erotic novel written by E L James , a TV executive, wife and mother-of-two based in West London.
The story is about a young woman, Anastasia Steele who meets business tycoon Christian Grey , who has a penchant for “bondage and discipline.” If you have ever fantasized about being dominated and you like reading romance stories with an edge, you might enjoy 50 Shades of Grey.
What is Power Play and Erotic Domination?
Power play is simply a more heightened variety of erotic domination. It’s about one person taking the lead (dominant) and the other surrendering (submissive) always within mutually agreed upon boundaries.
Why do Women Love Fifty Shades of Grey?
1. It is essentially a romantic love story .
2. 50 Shades of Grey is a story about a sexy, dominant powerful man and that is fascinating to most women. This has a lot to do with sexual polarity, in todays society many women have morphed into their masculine energy and men into more feminine energy. Yet so many women are dying for their lovers to take the lead in the bedroom and take them on an Erotic Adventure. Unfortunately our modern culture has emasculated our men such that they’ve become afraid to sexually lead their woman.
3. Fifty Shades of Grey has also given women the freedom to talk about the sensual fantasies they think about. Fantasies play a critically important role in keeping sex exciting in long term relationships. Fantasy play and bondage and submission games encourage you to move beyond your comfort zone. They encourage you to surrender to your partner, which requires a great degree of trust and vulnerablity and because of that it will bring you closer to your partner than you have ever been before.
4. Many women have also been brought up with the ‘Good Girl Syndrome’. This conditioning leads to negative thoughts and feelings about sex and the body, resulting in an inhibited sexual response. How often have you heard the saying ‘Good Girls Don’t”? By playing ‘Fantasy Games’ in the bedroom, you are given permission to ‘Let Go of the Good Girl’ and be a little naughty … because it is only a game
5. It is a Very Sexy Read!!!
For women fortunate enough to have a trusted lover who can take control in the bedroom, she can surrender completely, knowing he will take her on a sensual and erotic journey to experience total pleasure.
If you’ve wanted to have your man step up and lead you erotically, tell him. And give him as much detail about what would make it sexy for you and where your boundaries are. Check out the tips below on how to ‘Spice Up Your Sex Life’.
The best lover I ever had, would push me up against the wall, hold me tight and pin my body to the wall with his torso, he would use his other hand to pull my hair to the side while he kissed and lightly bit the back of my neck. He would then kneel down and slowly run his fingers and tongue up my legs … tell me there is not a woman out there who is swooning right now? Most of us fantasize about the strong, powerful man who can take charge and allow us to surrender completely.
If you would like to know more about Sexual Fantasy, Erotic Domination and how to Spice Up Your Love Life, you may be interested in my next workshop – Bedroom Goddess – The Lessons in the Art of Loving on my website Savvy Inspired Women click here ….
Please leave your comments below and tell me what you thought of Fifty Shades of Grey …. I loved the books!
Love Kim xxx